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random
Friday, November 09, 2007 at 1:32 PM
this is random :)

i wonder and ponder and wonder again
wads a blog for?? ><
lolx
just feel that for different ppl its for different purposes
be it a diary, a shop etc

i blogged hop a lot
and i frequent a couple of blogs just for reading pleasure
but sometimes i found that they blogged for the sake of how many unique visitors they have per day
they blogged stuffs that are..hmmx..just different
which will trigger both good and bad comments
they basked in the attention both negative and positive
they got proud seeing the numbers of visitors jump sky high
and they like to rebutt negatives comments by saying "so what? i still have 300 unique visitors everyday..yada yada blah blah"
which make me go "shit! i am one of the 300 and i dun even support wads being blogged abt"
and den i wonder...
how long can all the attention that last?

i had conflicts about joining nuffnang cause of this too
i asked myself "wad am i blogging for?"
its started out a year ago with a simple reason
i started the day hubby left me for NS at police academy
and for the sake of updating hubby about my daily happenings which i may forget to tell him over the phone cause i was bawling very night i got his call for nearly 3 months><
this blog become my personal venting ground
becomes a place where my poems or quotes are kept
it took over my paper diary
and i love it
i dun deny i love attentions from my friends
i like to noe that they noe wads happening to me
and they tag to show their care
this blog is a space i can call my own
i was afraid to commercialised it
afraid of allowing strangers who noe nuts about me to noe my life
or maybe i am just afraid that whatever i write here isnt deem as personal as possible anymore

in the end i still joined nuffnang
out of curiousity and everything
or maybe i just wan to try everything possible before i am deemed to old to do that
hahax
ya
and aso in the hope to earn some extra cash :)

wad is ur blog to you?

is it right for us, bloggers, even though our blog is our space, to write about issues that are deemed sensitive?
i admit that i am a conservative blogger
but it just doesnt seem right when a blogger goes around criticising abt another religon's teaching or any other sensitive issues
be it u like it or not
even if u want to comment about it
i feel that one should choose the words carefully and sensitively
people will argue "hey, wad about freedom of speech?"
BUT hey you back
please think before you say anything
for the past 42 years
our lil island tried its best to maintain the fragile race and religon harmony
so that today we can stand up proud as one united nation and progress and prosper
AND to tink that insensitive bloggers ard are sowing lil seeds of discord around ><
personally
though there are times when i found ppl of other races inconsiderate
or i dislike foreign workers squeezing in the train with me
i still feel glad that i am living in a world of racial harmony when i see lil kids of different races playing together

or maybe its just me being conservative and all
unable to accept young bloggers
spewing out their straight forward feelings into their blog for all to see
their straight forwardness is sometimes just too insensitive and too hurting for me

there had been many debates over bloggers and the things they blog
but my point of view is
one had to be responsible for wad they blog
you really have to think hard about the consequences of every lil word posted out there
for me
i wish that whatever i write here
when i look back, its all my memories & thoughts
instead of about some silly issues that i wrote for attention sake

i think this is just another controversy
another matter that will always have 2 sides of argument
a debate that will never have a perfect solution

this is something for you to wonder just like i am doing now...

*imissyou*
xoxo, Amber ♥
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